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Que sera sera

One of my favorite Spanish Quotes 'Que Sera Sera' means 'what will be, will be'. This quote is so true. I may sound a bit philosophical but wanted to write this for quite some time now. There is a lot being said about being positive, dreaming and attracting what one wants,about not being broken on not getting what one wants. So many books are being sold on such topics and no doubts they make sense. Out of experience, I have realized that the base behind every advice is that what has to happen, will happen. One can't stop it. But one needs to accept what has happened and act accordingly.
When a book talks about attracting what you want (say a bungalow), one can't just sit and keep dreaming. Actions need to be according to the intended goal. In achieving the said goal, we are sure to encounter a lot of obstacles. Beauty lies in facing them and planning the next steps.

The world is actually a classroom, with each one being your peer and life is a very tough teacher. She will question every action of yours and at times (in fact most of the time) the world would hardly understand you. You would be asked to prove your worth multiple times.

Mantra - Smile..Keep Calm..Be Perseverant..Accept and Plan..
                            Que Sera Sera.....

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