I remember my childhood when in summers there was a specific time and duration for what we call 'power cut' in late evening. And that was time we all used to wait for. Our parents made sure we completed our homework by then, all their house hold work completed. When the moment came, lights went off everywhere. And an uproar of 'light gayiiiiii' was heard across. All the kids were out on the street. The only lights were candles at home, oil lit lamps at temples, moon and star shine. Hide and seek was best played like this. All the ladies used to gather and gossip, men used to discuss politics or office. Balconies and streets were filled with people. Everyone knew everyone. Teenage gangs played Antakshari and most of the time it was boys v/s girls version. If one was slightly more knowledgeable and wanted to show off, planets, stars, bikes were discussed.
There were some days when we didn't go to play, but used to sit with mom dad and granny and listen to a story or gaze at stars and guess the zodiac. Irrespective of which state of India the 80s n 90s kids spent their childhood in, most of them will be able to relate to all this.
With time, came 'emergency lights'. Candles started fading. But the evening play time in the dark was still intact.
Next came the era of inverters. And the end of darkness! But this end is a sad one. Less kids are seen playing outside. Neighbors hardly know each other. Stars..hardly seen. Games are now played online, friends made online, story telling is slowly fading (will surely write about story telling in a later blog). Power cuts are no more known to kids, unless the inverter totally goes off.
What an irony..'Light has engulfed the beauty of darkness'.
Yesterday I had been to my cousin's place who has a 2 years old daughter. It's interesting to see the way the kid has grown. Every day she has a new thing to learn. Now like every 'proud' parent, my cousin started to play the 'tell me who is this' game with the kid. The kid answered patiently and happily coz every answer was followed with applauds. An hour later, we had a new visitor. The neighborhood aunty. She re-started the 'tell me who is this' game. And the kid continued answering with a smile. This made me get into a kids shoe and think of what he/she might be thinking at each age. Let me start with age Zero to 1 year. My parents hug and kiss me, I absolutely love it. I feel wanted. But why do they not talk properly? 'Mela thota baby thoyega,ghummi dayega ' . What the hell!! I do understand the language. Anywayz next comes the uncle next door, I was happy the first time he came and got me a gift. But was followed by a 'lu lu lu lu...
Rightly said and portrayed beautifully.
ReplyDeleteGod! I miss those days :/
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